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Relative Clauses (Defining)

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B1
CEFR B1·clauses

Formula

person
who / that
thing
which / that
person/thing
(who / that / which)
person/thing
whose
place
where

Examples

Positive
She is the woman who works at the bank.
Negative
He isn't the man who lives next door.
Question
Is he the teacher who taught you French?

Usage

  • Identifying exactly which person, thing, or place you mean out of a group
  • Giving essential information that can't be removed without changing the meaning
  • Joining two short sentences about the same noun into one clear sentence
  • Showing possession (whose) or location (where) within the description

More Examples

  • The man who called you is my brother.

    Subject relative clause with who (people)

  • I lost the keys that were on the desk.

    Subject relative clause with that (things)

  • This is the house where I grew up.

    Relative clause of place with where

  • She's the girl whose dog won the competition.

    Possessive relative clause with whose

  • The film (that) we watched last night was boring.

    Object relative clause — pronoun can be omitted

  • The people (who) I met at the party were really friendly.

    Object relative clause with who — pronoun optional, especially in speech

Common Mistakes

  • Doubling the subject with a personal pronoun: "The man who he called me" instead of "The man who called me."
  • Mixing up who/which: "The book who I read" or "The man which I met" — who is for people, which/that is for things.
  • Adding a comma as if the clause were non-defining, when it's essential to identifying the noun: no comma before defining who/which/that/where/whose.
  • Dropping the relative pronoun when it's the subject of its clause: "The man lives next door called me" is wrong — subject who/that/which must stay.

Tips

  • Ask: is the relative pronoun the subject or object of its own clause? Subject pronouns (who/which/that) can never be dropped; object pronouns can.
  • In everyday spoken English, "that" is often preferred over "who"/"which" — especially after superlatives and words like all, everything, the only.
  • "Whose" shows possession no matter whether the owner is a person, an animal, or a thing.

Advanced Notes

In natural speech, "that" (or no pronoun at all) is far more common than "who" or "which" in defining clauses — "which" can sound slightly formal or bookish outside of contexts like "after a preposition" (the topic on which we agreed). Dropping the object relative pronoun ("the book I read") is the everyday default; keeping it ("the book that I read") just adds a touch of formality, never a grammar error either way. Because a defining clause supplies information the sentence needs to make sense, it is never set off by commas — adding one shifts the meaning toward non-defining and can quietly change what the sentence claims (compare "the students who passed celebrated" with "the students, who passed, celebrated").

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